Beautiful advice from a divorced man after 16 years of marriage.
#1. Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted.
#2. Protect your own heart. There is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.
#3. Fall in love over and over again.
#4. Always see the best in her.
#5. It’s not your job to change or fix her - your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing.
#6. Take full accountability for your own emotions.
#7. Never blame your wife if you get frustrated or angry at her - it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU.
#8. Allow your woman to just be.
#9. Be silly - don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh.
#10. Fill her soul everyday.
#11. Be present. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul.
#12. Be willing to take her sexually, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength.
#13. Don’t be an idiot - And don’t be afraid of being one either.
#14. Give her space.
#15. Be vulnerable - you don’t have to have it all together.
#16. Be fully transparent.
#17. NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER.
#18. Don’t worry about money.
#19. Forgive immediately and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past.
#20. Always choose love. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE.
- In the end marriage isn't about happily ever after. It’s about a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. <3