Monday, June 15, 2015

i am now ISTP.. wow!!!


As an ISTP, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you deal with things rationally and logically. Your secondary mode is external, where you take things in via your five senses in a literal, concrete fashion.

ISTPs have a compelling drive to understand the way things work. They're good at logical analysis, and like to use it on practical concerns. They typically have strong powers of reasoning, although they're not interested in theories or concepts unless they can see a practical application. They like to take things apart and see the way they work.

ISTPs have an adventuresome spirit. They are attracted to motorcycles, airplanes, sky diving, surfing, etc. They thrive on action, and are usually fearless. ISTPs are fiercely independent, needing to have the space to make their own decisions about their next step. They do not believe in or follow rules and regulations, as this would prohibit their ability to "do their own thing". Their sense of adventure and desire for constant action makes ISTPs prone to becoming bored rather quickly.

ISTPs are loyal to their causes and beliefs, and are firm believers that people should be treated with equity and fairness. Although they do not respect the rules of the "System", they follow their own rules and guidelines for behavior faithfully. They will not take part in something which violates their personal laws. ISTPs are extremely loyal and faithful to their "brothers".

ISTPs like and need to spend time alone, because this is when they can sort things out in their minds most clearly. They absorb large quantities of impersonal facts from the external world, and sort through those facts, making judgments, when they are alone.

ISTPs are action-oriented people. They like to be up and about, doing things. They are not people to sit behind a desk all day and do long-range planning. Adaptable and spontaneous, they respond to what is immediately before them. They usually have strong technical skills, and can be effective technical leaders. They focus on details and practical things. They have an excellent sense of expediency and grasp of the details which enables them to make quick, effective decisions.

ISTPs avoid making judgments based on personal values - they feel that judgments and decisions should be made impartially, based on the fact. They are not naturally tuned in to how they are affecting others. They do not pay attention to their own feelings, and even distrust them and try to ignore them, because they have difficulty distinguishing between emotional reactions and value judgments. This may be a problem area for many ISTPs.

An ISTP who is over-stressed may exhibit rash emotional outbursts of anger, or on the other extreme may be overwhelmed by emotions and feelings which they feel compelled to share with people (often inappropriately). An ISTP who is down on themself will foray into the world of value judgments - a place which is not natural for the ISTP - and judge themself by their inability to perform some task. They will then approach the task in a grim emotional state, expecting the worst.

ISTPs are excellent in a crisis situations. They're usually good athletes, and have very good hand-eye coordination. They are good at following through with a project, and tying up loose ends. They usually don't have much trouble with school, because they are introverts who can think logically. They are usually patient individuals, although they may be prone to occasional emotional outbursts due to their inattention to their own feelings.

ISTPs have a lot of natural ability which makes them good at many different kinds of things. However, they are happiest when they are centered in action-oriented tasks which require detailed logical analysis and technical skill. They take pride in their ability to take the next correct step.

ISTPs are optimistic, full of good cheer, loyal to their equals, uncomplicated in their desires, generous, trusting and receptive people who want no part in confining commitments.

Jungian functional preference ordering:

Dominant: Introverted Thinking
Auxiliary: Extraverted Sensing
Tertiary: Introverted Intuition
Inferior: Extraverted Feeling


LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST 
~yona_afzan~

17 Things You Should Know Before Dating a Confident Girl

by COSMOPOLITAN

1. Because she's confident, she wants you to be confident too. 
Telling her, "I'm intimidated by you" is more likely to make her roll her eyes than feel flattered, if that was your goal. She can hold her own in any situation and needs a man who can along with her.

2. She will definitely call you out on your shit. 
If you take days to text her back and that annoyed her, she will tell you. Also, she might not (well, probably will not) go out with you again.

3. She has her shit together.
That's one of the reasons she's so confident — because she's worked to get her life to the place where she can feel confident about herself, resisting constant cultural cues that suggest she should feel otherwise. And if you don't have your shit together and don't feel confident in what you've got going on, good luck keeping up with her. There's nothing less sexy to a confident woman than a dude who acts like he has his life together only for her to then find out that he really hates his job, has three friends, and actually has zero things together.

4. She wants to be as confident in your relationship as she is in herself and the rest of her life. 
So don't dick her around. Don't make her wonder what your intentions are. Because she won't stick around to find out.

5. She's direct and wants you to be too. 
With her, what you see is what you get and that's what she wants from other people in her life. If you don't want to chill with her anymore, grow a pair and tell her. Don't string her along and like all her Instagram photos if you're not fully invested in her. She'll appreciate you saying, "Hey, I think you're really cool, but this just isn't working for me."

6. She's highly motivated and attracted to others who are also highly motivated. 
If you don't have serious drive, you don't share the same values, and it probably won't work out.

7. She knows how to pull her weight in a relationship and won't expect anything less from you. 
A great relationship is a fifty-fifty collaboration, so bring your A game.

8. She's not going to chase you. 
If you want her, you'll have to go after her, because she's confident she'll find someone else if you don't give your all to the relationship.

9. She isn't threatened by your ex. 
She is sure of herself and doesn't think your ex — or anyone else — is going to take you from her. And if she does think you'll stray that easily, she'll be gone before you do because she knows she deserves better.

10. She won't act out of insecurity. 
So don't worry about her going through your phone. If you pull some shady shit and give her a reason to be suspicious of your behavior, she'll ask you about it rather than go behind your back.

11. Just because she's confident, that doesn't mean she won't have moments of weakness.
She acts invincible, but she's not. She'll need you to be there for her, even when she tries to get through things on her own.

12. She doesn't expect or need compliments from people around her, but she still likes to hear them anyway. 
She knows her strengths (or just when she has a great pair of shoes on) and still enjoys hearing them called out from time to time by someone other than her own brain.

13. She's not afraid of judgment from your friends or family. 
So if they have comments about her, it's probably best to keep them to yourself, because a confident girl isn't going to change for them.

14. She probably won't change for you. 
She likes who she is and isn't interested in becoming someone she's not.

15. She doesn't want to feel guilty. 
When she does, she'll try to figure out why she feels that way and take the actions necessary to not feel that way.

16. She's highly communicative. 
She never wants you to guess how she's feeling, so she'll tell you more often than not. The last thing
she wants is for your relationship to be a guessing game.

17. She admits when she's wrong. 
A confident woman isn't afraid to admit when she made a mistake or hurt another person's feelings. She will own up to her mistakes and faults, and try not to make them a habit.


LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST
~yona_afzan~