#marriageadvise

Beautiful advice from a divorced man after 16 years of marriage.

#1. Never stop courting. Never stop dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted.
#2. Protect your own heart. There is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.
#3. Fall in love over and over again.
#4. Always see the best in her.
#5. It’s not your job to change or fix her - your job is to love her as she is with no expectation of her ever changing.
#6. Take full accountability for your own emotions.
#7. Never blame your wife if you get frustrated or angry at her - it is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU.
#8. Allow your woman to just be.
#9. Be silly - don’t take yourself so damn seriously. Laugh. And make her laugh.
#10. Fill her soul everyday.
#11. Be present. Give her not only your time, but your focus, your attention and your soul.
#12. Be willing to take her sexually, to carry her away in the power of your masculine presence, to consume her and devour her with your strength.
#13. Don’t be an idiot - And don’t be afraid of being one either.
#14. Give her space.
#15. Be vulnerable - you don’t have to have it all together.
#16. Be fully transparent.
#17. NEVER STOP GROWING TOGETHER.
#18. Don’t worry about money.
#19. Forgive immediately and focus on the future rather than carrying weight from the past.
#20. Always choose love. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE. ALWAYS CHOOSE LOVE.

- In the end marriage isn't about happily ever after. It’s about a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. <3

Doa untuk kedua ibu bapa

بِسۡـــــــــمِ ٱللهِ ٱلرَّحۡـمَـٰنِ ٱلرَّحِـــــــيمِ
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اَلْحَمْدُ ِللهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِيْنَ وَالْعَاقِبَةُ لِلْمُتَّقِيْنَ وَلاَ عُدْوَانَ إِلاَّ عَلَى الظَّالِمِيْنَ وَالصَّلاَةُ وَالسَّلاَمُ عَلَى أَشْرَفِ اْلأَنْبِيَاءِ وَالْمُرْسَلِيْنَ وَعَلَى ءَالِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ أَجْمَعِيْن
                               
Ya Allah ampunilah segala dosa dan kesalahan kami, dosa kedua ibu bapa kami serta keluarga kami.

Ya Allah kasihanilah dan sayangilah ibu bapa kami sebagaimana mereka telah mengasihani dan menyayangi kami sewaktu kami kecil dahulu.

Ya Allah kami juga memohon perlindungan Mu dari kejahatan yang ada didalamnya dan kejahatan yang ada sesudahnya.

Ya Allah bukakanlah pintu rezeki Mu seluas-luasnya untuk kami.

Ya Allah berikan kami kekuatan supaya kami dapat meneruskan perjuangan Nabi kami Muhammad SAW di zaman tidak ada Nabi dan Rasul ini, supaya dapat kami bersyukur dan menunaikan amanah Islam ini.

Ya Allah perlihatkanlah yang benar itu benar supaya dapat kami mengikutinya dan perlihatkanlah yang salah itu salah supaya dapat kami menjauhinya.

Ya Allah bersihkanlah hati kami, pemikiran kami dan kehidupan kami daripada segala jenis syirik, kufur, nifak dan sifat-sifat yang keji.

Ya Allah jadikan hati kami ini hati yang menyukai apa yang disukai oleh Mu dan membenci apa yang Engkau benci.

Ya Razaq, rahmatilah kami, permudahkan dan lancarkanlah semua urusan kami dan sihatkanlah tubuh badan kami agar dapat menjalankan tugas harian kami dengan baik.

Ya Allah bukakanlah untuk kami pintu-pintu kebaikan, pintu-pintu keselamatan, pintu-pintu kesihatan, pintu-pintu nikmat, pintu-pintu keberkatan, pintu-pintu kekuatan, pintu-pintu cinta sejati, pintu-pintu kasih sayang, pintu-pintu rezeki, pintu-pintu ilmu, pintu-pintu keampunanmu dan pintu-pintu syurgaMu untuk kami.

Ya Allah pada Mu sahajalah tempat kami memohon segala permintaan Ya Allah, wahai tuhan yang maha pengasih lagi maha penyayang.

َYa Allah kami memohon Ya Allah, kurniakanlah kepada kedua ibubapa kami tempat yang istimewa di syurgaMu Ya Allah. َ

Ya Allah Ya Ghaffar ampunkanlah dosa-dosa kami, dosa kedua ibubapa kami, pasangan hidup kami, anak2 kami, kaum keluarga kami, guru-guru kami, sahabat-sahabat kami serta sekalian muslimin muslimat di mana saja mereka berada.

Selawat dan salam ke atas junjungan kami Nabi Muhammad SAW serta ahli keluarga dan para sahabatnya.

Segala puji pujian hanya untukMu Ya Allah.                                                     
رَبَّنَا ظَلَمْنَا أَنْفُسَنَا وَإِنْ لَّمْ تَغْفِرْلَنَا وَتَرْحَمْنَا لَنَكُوْنَنَّ مِنَ الْخَاسِرِيْنَ

رَبَّنَا ءَاتِنَا فِى الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِى اْلآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ

وَصَلَّى الله ُعَلَى سَيِّدِنَا مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى ءَالِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ وَسَلَّمَ

وَالْحَمْدُ ِللهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمين.ِ

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Dear Future Soulmate

Dear Future Soulmate,

I don’t believe we’ve met yet. But when we do, and I know we will, you will be the most important person in my life. I can promise you now that it won’t be love at first sight, nor will it necessarily be easy— nothing has come easy in my life. But I will fall in love with you and your flaws. You will fall in love with me and mine. I will love you not because you are pretty, or because you are easy to talk to, or fun to hang out with; I’m sure you will be all those things, but it won’t be what I fall in love with.

You see, I love you because of who you are. I love the experiences you’ve been through. I love how those experiences have shaped how you think and the person that you’ve become. I love the fact that you are compassionate and kind. I love that you are smart and educated. I love that we share similar life experiences. I love how seemingly easy it is for me to empathize with you. I love that you are my best friend. I love you unconditionally.

This is all speculation, of course. Truth is, I don’t know if you actually exist. I don’t know whether we will ever meet. And I surely don’t know if there is such a thing as a soulmate. But I like to believe there is. I like to believe we will one day find each other. I will never give up hope that there is really someone for everyone. Until I find you, you will lie in my dreams and there you will remain as hope and inspiration.

Love.
Your future another half.

#copyandpaste

Bagusssss..

Situasi di tadika..

Bila anak murid semua dah hafal nombor 1-20, perkataan2 english semua, teacher pun mulakanlah sesi pujian untuk naikkan semangat mereka nak belajar.

Teacher: bagussssnyaaaa semua. Dah hafal semua yang teacher ajar. Siapa yang bagus?
Anak murid: Saya!!!
Teacher: bagussss.. (Sambil senyum walaupun diorang xnampak)
Ameer: teacher pun bagus jugak.
Teacher: kenapa?
Ameer: sebab teacher ajar kitorang sampai pandai..

Hoho, nasib teacher pakai niqab. Kalau x, malu semedang anak murid teacher sengih sampai ke telinga.

Terima kasih.. 😊😊😊

Sehari bersama anak tuisyen..

Yesterday was super kelakar

Kakak saya seorang guru tuisyen. Semalam anak2 murid (level UPSR) tuisyen di rumah.

Petah betol dorang ni. Bila tanya teacher je, teacher boleh jawab. Bile tanya je, teacher jawab. Tak tanya pon teacher jawab. Hahaha
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AnakMurid 1 : teacher ni pandai la 🎓
AnakMurid 2 : Mestilah teacher pandai. Teacher kan Arkitek
Teacher : Ha kalau nak jadi macam adik Teacher, blaja pandai2. Dia tu akauntan tau
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AnakMurid 3 : Teacher, besar nanti saya pon nak jadi akauntan.
AnakMurid 4 : Teacher Teacher Teacher Teacher Teacher (x100)
*Selagi teacher tak menyahut selagi tu tak berhenti panggil teacher

Teacher : ye saya
AnakMurid 4 : saya ada gaya tak besar nanti jadi Arkitek? 🤔🤔🤔
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Yang dia beriye panggil tu, nak tanya tu je? 
😂😂😂😂

Lindungilah Anak2 ini Ya Allah ❤

C&P from fb jumma izfan 😊😊😊